It doesn't bother me because I don't care.

The only person I try to impress is Mr. Sunny.

It's clear most women love the attention.

If they didn't - why would they wear make-up, heels, and all that uncomfortable clothing?

All people want are others acceptance.
When in the end, all you need is acceptance of yourself, from yourself.

LoP Guest  Wrote:

It's clear most women love the attention.

If they didn't - why would they wear make-up, heels, and all that uncomfortable clothing?

All people want are others acceptance.
When in the end, all you need is acceptance of yourself, from yourself.

You have to understand that is how young girls are raised. From the time they are born their reason for existence is that they are "beautiful" or "pretty".
Boys get told, they are smart, funny, talented, witty, honorable, giving, etc.

Outer beauty is all a girl gets to know about herself. Add that with media confirming to her that her body is all that is important and that is what you get.

If she doesn't have that, she doesn't have anything.

LoP Guest  Wrote:

It's clear most women love the attention.

If they didn't - why would they wear make-up, heels, and all that uncomfortable clothing?

All people want are others acceptance.
When in the end, all you need is acceptance of yourself, from yourself.

You have to understand that is how young girls are raised. From the time they are born their reason for existence is that they are "beautiful" or "pretty".
Boys get told, they are smart, funny, talented, witty, honorable, giving, etc.

Outer beauty is all a girl gets to know about herself. Add that with media confirming to her that her body is all that is important and that is what you get.

If she doesn't have that, she doesn't have anything.

Sunny  Wrote:

LoP Guest  Wrote:

It's clear most women love the attention.

If they didn't - why would they wear make-up, heels, and all that uncomfortable clothing?

All people want are others acceptance.
When in the end, all you need is acceptance of yourself, from yourself.

You have to understand that is how young girls are raised. From the time they are born their reason for existence is that they are "beautiful" or "pretty".
Boys get told, they are smart, funny, talented, witty, honorable, giving, etc.

Outer beauty is all a girl gets to know about herself. Add that with media confirming to her that her body is all that is important and that is what you get.

If she doesn't have that, she doesn't have anything.

This is so true and sad. When I encounter a western girl, I feel the barricades of judgement grow between us. But as I lose all that is false and not real through the emergence of being in her presence, I connect with something much deeper, much more powerful and beautiful than anything that the eye can see. It is a pity western women have these barricades, as they are barricading themselves into something that is a prison..

Sunny  Wrote:

LoP Guest  Wrote:

It's clear most women love the attention.

If they didn't - why would they wear make-up, heels, and all that uncomfortable clothing?

All people want are others acceptance.
When in the end, all you need is acceptance of yourself, from yourself.

You have to understand that is how young girls are raised. From the time they are born their reason for existence is that they are "beautiful" or "pretty".
Boys get told, they are smart, funny, talented, witty, honorable, giving, etc.

Outer beauty is all a girl gets to know about herself. Add that with media confirming to her that her body is all that is important and that is what you get.

If she doesn't have that, she doesn't have anything.

Oh, I'm completely aware of the environment which dictates our actions.
So sad though!

I mean, confidence in this society is gained by acting like a fool.
How does having an IQ of 80, a lack of morality, and no structure promote self confidence?

This world is so broken, I would cry - however it appears funny in my eyes that human beings with freewill and free thought are incapable of having a unique idea.

Oh, and the beliefs we carry make me feel as if we deserve this outcome.

LoP Guest  Wrote:

Sunny  Wrote:

You have to understand that is how young girls are raised. From the time they are born their reason for existence is that they are "beautiful" or "pretty".
Boys get told, they are smart, funny, talented, witty, honorable, giving, etc.

Outer beauty is all a girl gets to know about herself. Add that with media confirming to her that her body is all that is important and that is what you get.

If she doesn't have that, she doesn't have anything.

Oh, I'm completely aware of the environment which dictates our actions.
So sad though!

I mean, confidence in this society is gained by acting like a fool.
How does having an IQ of 80, a lack of morality, and no structure promote self confidence?

This world is so broken, I would cry - however it appears funny in my eyes that human beings with freewill and free thought are incapable of having a unique idea.

Oh, and the beliefs we carry make me feel as if we deserve this outcome.

I have come to agree with this sentiment. I personally try very hard to uphold sound judgement and good morals, yet I am constantly disappointing myself with my own thoughts. I often feel like I deserve exactly what's coming because I have failed so many times when I could not control the outcome of my thoughts.

Our thoughts determine our actions and our actions determine our character.

LoP Guest  Wrote:

Sunny  Wrote:

You have to understand that is how young girls are raised. From the time they are born their reason for existence is that they are "beautiful" or "pretty".
Boys get told, they are smart, funny, talented, witty, honorable, giving, etc.

Outer beauty is all a girl gets to know about herself. Add that with media confirming to her that her body is all that is important and that is what you get.

If she doesn't have that, she doesn't have anything.

This is so true and sad. When I encounter a western girl, I feel the barricades of judgement grow between us. But as I lose all that is false and not real through the emergence of being in her presence, I connect with something much deeper, much more powerful and beautiful than anything that the eye can see. It is a pity western women have these barricades, as they are barricading themselves into something that is a prison..

And men also, it goes both ways

pocahontas  Wrote:

LoP Guest  Wrote:

Oh, I'm completely aware of the environment which dictates our actions.
So sad though!

I mean, confidence in this society is gained by acting like a fool.
How does having an IQ of 80, a lack of morality, and no structure promote self confidence?

This world is so broken, I would cry - however it appears funny in my eyes that human beings with freewill and free thought are incapable of having a unique idea.

Oh, and the beliefs we carry make me feel as if we deserve this outcome.

I have come to agree with this sentiment. I personally try very hard to uphold sound judgement and good morals, yet I am constantly disappointing myself with my own thoughts. I often feel like I deserve exactly what's coming because I have failed so many times when I could not control the outcome of my thoughts.

Our thoughts determine our actions and our actions determine our character.

Do not become angry at yourself for your programmed responses to leak out.

You are trying to better yourself!
It's hard to break the mold!

People like US (who try to improve our value system) do not deserve this outcome.
Because if everyone put effort into this, the outcome that's coming would never happen.

Don't blame yourself, be yourself - accept it.
But, you sure as hell don't have to accept the world for the way it is!
...Things should NOT be this way...We are out of balance, and external forces have been, and will continue to try to recalibrate this.

However, I'm sure the longer we take - the more intense the re-balance will be.

LoP Guest  Wrote:

LoP Guest  Wrote:

This is so true and sad. When I encounter a western girl, I feel the barricades of judgement grow between us. But as I lose all that is false and not real through the emergence of being in her presence, I connect with something much deeper, much more powerful and beautiful than anything that the eye can see. It is a pity western women have these barricades, as they are barricading themselves into something that is a prison..

And men also, it goes both ways

In essence, it is not really who we are, but how we have been conditioned to conform to something that is etched with sexual energy, but that is unobtainable. This leads to a disintegration, to depression and an inability to express through feeling and true love. It is unconsciousness that seeks to become conscious...