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**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 4142 04-26-2012 11:39 PM

Quote:Look inside your self to find why you do not inspire your mate.

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**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 81677 04-26-2012 11:40 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

akhenaten Wrote:
LoP Guest Wrote:
Well we all know you are NOT a woman of your word.
When the going gets tough LEAVE!.
So much for rich or poor sickness and in health.
Children like you should not have more children.
You Admit you NEVER loved him only loved the POTENTIAL for your satisfaction and happiness.

Look inside your self to find why you do not inspire your mate.
Look inside your self to find YOUR source of unhappiness.
No you will not for you expect some one else to make you happy.
Enjoy what you have sewn.

What's the old "joke".

Men get married expecting nothing to change.
Women get married expecting to change everything. LOL

Or my personal favorite...

Why do husbands die before their wives? Because they WANT to.

I didnt get married expecting to change him, but I didnt expect him to turn into .....what he has become. Which is basically a lazy , know-it-all, beer drinking , asshole.

I didnt want this kind of life. and its the only life I have. And sadly, he is too busy on the internet forums too even notice. Always talking about his guns, drinking beer, IP addresses and eating shitty food, getting tattoos, and going on and on about the new world order or some dumb shit that no one wants to hear about, and really, he has NO IDEA of what he is talking about, he is just making shit up, so hopefully his made-up fantasy land can somehow involve him shooting people. All he wants to do is spy on people and shoot them......put them down......Other than laying around on the couch going bald and getting fat....He "thinks" he is some kind of bad ass because he "works out"....what a joke, he is an asshole!! and only younger dumb-ass kids will even listen to him....I have had enough with him. And once I leave, he is going to have to pay for his blowjobs!! He might get so angry, that i wouldnt put it past him to shoot me.....that is how scary he is!!!

sounds like several posters here. chuckle

**NutzMcTaffy**

LoP Guest Wrote:

When we first got married, it was okay. He was real popular and strong and he had a bright future. We have two kids, a girl and a boy. But after more than 15 years, he has turned into a lump. He is fat, Bald, has no ambition, and lays around on the couch every chance he gets, eating chips and drinking. It is disgusting.

My girlfriends have all moved to different cities and they have great lives...I know, Ive spent weekends with them.

I cant stand coming home to his laziness and beer drinking. I am going to leave him and move. Start my life over meeting more interesting, ambitious about life, men!

I am worried about the kids, but I think they are old enough to understand. I need a divorce lawyer. I think he should be paying some kind of child support. And I need some good advice from women(or men) who have gone through the same thing. Not normal advice. The real deal, like on these conspiracy sites!! It seems people are more honest....

Me being Neutral.... and once in the same position....

At least give him the chance to change.... and tell him your objective.... if he loves you ... He will fix things.... Some times We ( MEN) are dumb as f*ck and don't pick up on the signs our Wives are trying to show us....

I fixed my marriage after my wife wanted to leave... because she is worth it and I love her.... and now... We have the best marriage... and it was because she had to TELL me what was wrong because I was clueless...

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 4142 04-26-2012 11:41 PM

Quote:And sadly, he is too busy on the internet forums too even notice.

Oh, is that why you're here?

**freebyrd**

LoP Guest Wrote:

When we first got married, it was okay. He was real popular and strong and he had a bright future. We have two kids, a girl and a boy. But after more than 15 years, he has turned into a lump. He is fat, Bald, has no ambition, and lays around on the couch every chance he gets, eating chips and drinking. It is disgusting.

My girlfriends have all moved to different cities and they have great lives...I know, Ive spent weekends with them.

I cant stand coming home to his laziness and beer drinking. I am going to leave him and move. Start my life over meeting more interesting, ambitious about life, men!

I am worried about the kids, but I think they are old enough to understand. I need a divorce lawyer. I think he should be paying some kind of child support. And I need some good advice from women(or men) who have gone through the same thing. Not normal advice. The real deal, like on these conspiracy sites!! It seems people are more honest....

are you hot?

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 88524 04-26-2012 11:46 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

Pics (of your tits) or it didn't happen.

You ever voice your disgust at him? Maybe he sits on the couch because he is depressed. Depressed his wife always wants a different life and she makes him feel worthless.

He can help the fat, laziness and the drinking. The bald part is unfair of you. Unless of course you are a perfect person.

Thank you. Why are people always blaming others for their own shitty lives? My guess is she'll leave him and her life will continue to suck because she's a shallow cow.

**Forgot my username** lop guest User ID: 91498 04-26-2012 11:53 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

When we first got married, it was okay. He was real popular and strong and he had a bright future. We have two kids, a girl and a boy. But after more than 15 years, he has turned into a lump. He is fat, Bald, has no ambition, and lays around on the couch every chance he gets, eating chips and drinking. It is disgusting.

My girlfriends have all moved to different cities and they have great lives...I know, Ive spent weekends with them.

I cant stand coming home to his laziness and beer drinking. I am going to leave him and move. Start my life over meeting more interesting, ambitious about life, men!

I am worried about the kids, but I think they are old enough to understand. I need a divorce lawyer. I think he should be paying some kind of child support. And I need some good advice from women(or men) who have gone through the same thing. Not normal advice. The real deal, like on these conspiracy sites!! It seems people are more honest....

I have some advice for you... DIAF

Really don't care about what you'll do to your husband, but you're going to f*ck those kids up. I'm sure you already have f*cked those kids up, just looking at your rational thinking abilities, but I digress... Many things are repairable; divorce isn't one of them.

**0001**

dont talk about richard like that.... Jptdknpa

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 92865 04-27-2012 12:02 AM

@op
did he ever physically or verbally abused you or your children?
just asking because according to your description he seems to be a more ... aggressive type of person.

so you just married him because he was handsome back then and because you thought he would start a career as a professional athlete and make a lot of $$$? are you 4 real? Oo

ever thought about his feelings? maybe he hates his life too because it doesnt went the way he wished it would go. maybe he views himself as loser. maybe he hates his job. maybe somehow he doesnt view you as adequate for discussing such emotional stuff. maybe hes desperate and goes through exact the same crisis youre going through right now.
but what worries me is that he seems to blame others for his own fail and not himself because he seems to feel as if hes always right...

how do you want to start a new life? do you just want to leave him rent an apartment in some city and hope that youll find a job with a decent income and then just party or what? or do you hope to find a new man in your age whos rich and/or will add a special zest to your life?
i mean: what is your plan? you should think further than "i have to leave him!" if you seriously want to take that step.

somehow it seems like you both are disappointed because your dreams didnt come true. you should talk to him. i bet he wasnt always like hes today. i bet you liked his personality a lot when he was younger and maybe full of visionary stuff he wanted to do. maybe you should start talking with him about the past... the beginning of your lovestory... remember who you both were back then... how you felt for each other... what you both experienced...

but on the other hand... your description of him sounds not good at all... somehow he seems to be a delusional alcoholic... maybe you should leave and take the kids with you.
usually its not a good idea to live with someone who drinks regularly alcohol possesses guns wants to shoot people and hangs around in conspiracy forums talking about the nwo...
maybe its better to not talk at all to him and just take the kids and leave if you view him as dangerous. but then there is a probability that hes going to find and kill you...

maybe you shouldnt listen to any advice in a forum because we dont know him nor we know you and some superficial infos about your marriage and your husband lead more to speculation than serious solutions.

**What's my name**

ashesandsackcloth Wrote:

Jezebel spirit for sure. Read about it.

I have said the very same words bro.

Sounds like my Ex and I wasn't bald fat or lazy..just my former work took up a lot of my time.

**Free Range Humans** · (This post was last modified: 04-27-2012 12:08 AM by Free Range Humans.)

LoP Guest Wrote:

When we first got married, it was okay. He was real popular and strong and he had a bright future. We have two kids, a girl and a boy. But after more than 15 years, he has turned into a lump. He is fat, Bald, has no ambition, and lays around on the couch every chance he gets, eating chips and drinking. It is disgusting.

My girlfriends have all moved to different cities and they have great lives...I know, Ive spent weekends with them.

I cant stand coming home to his laziness and beer drinking. I am going to leave him and move. Start my life over meeting more interesting, ambitious about life, men!

I am worried about the kids, but I think they are old enough to understand. I need a divorce lawyer. I think he should be paying some kind of child support. And I need some good advice from women(or men) who have gone through the same thing. Not normal advice. The real deal, like on these conspiracy sites!! It seems people are more honest....

You drained his youth and life and hopes away snaring him into marriage and now that he is a mere shadow of the man you destroyed you think it's time to move on?

Your kids will come to see you as the symbol of everything evil in life, they will be right, you should take out a huge life insurance policy on yourself and then stumble into fast moving traffic.

**Gym Nasium** lop guest User ID: 92817 04-27-2012 12:04 AM

LoP Guest Wrote:

Baby, you said you weren't going to post here about me.

**Ghenghy**

This has got the makings of the dumbest thread of all time! Hiding3

**Moranic_Mayhem** lop guest User ID: 14081 04-27-2012 12:06 AM

HALT!

*commercial break*

Fancy a cuppa?

Tea break chuckle

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xAl7zvdYKKk

**FreedomStands**

YOU'RE ABANDONING A LUMP! HAVE MERCY!