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**crazystuff** lop guest User ID: 88604 04-15-2012 07:19 AM

I am so f*cked.

Met a guy online. He was the persuader and I was married, yet something about him made me feel so in love. I went from friends, to full on love, to I know we have issuues etc.. to I love you. Like I adore you. All I can think about is you.

Man it sucks even more cause we have not talked in months.I thought he would be there for me. I don't need know weak man who walks out on his wife should she be ill or whatever, but anyway that was what brought this conversation about.

I have issues I need to attend to before ever moving on. Yet, he is totally recluse.

He told me for months he loved me. I Love You, I love You, I love You etc...WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now I want to be with him. Like as long as I wake up every morning next to him, I will be a happy camper.

He is not answering emails, he never gave me his phone number because he could not & I respected that. He has really turned my life upside down.

Should I move on? Hard to forget about him, as songs remind me of him.

Is he some sort of player?? I have been in a relationship since i was a teenager. Is there something I should do?

I am getting desperate cause I don't know how much longer I can live like this.

**Sarah**

He's a player. Do yourself a favor and move on.

**Paddington Bear** · (This post was last modified: 04-15-2012 07:30 AM by Paddington Bear.)

Well it sounds like you love the dude. How do you know he is a recluse? Do you know him personally? Maybe the dude does love ya but needs for you to tell him so that is why he might be a recluse and might be like trying to let it be because he told you already many times. So it's basically like the ball is in your court so to speak. So if you really do love this man and he does also then you need to speak to him face to face about it. He probably feels the same way he just needs someone to tell him that someone loves him.

Well I hope it all ends good for everyone sometimes love does strange things and amazing things in this planet

**Gitana** · **Gitana** Bleed's User ID: 89890 04-15-2012 07:39 AM **Posts: 13,012**

he might not be a player...but it does sound like he has some issues of his own which may be why he retreated...if he's not returning your emails then maybe it is best to let him go..

ive learned this past year that sometimes what we want is not what is meant for us...

someone very sweet and dear here on lop told me that someday i would be grateful for unanswered prayers and they were so right...i would have missed an amazing soul if i had gotten my way..