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**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 40941 11-22-2011 10:58 PM

That means that hookers make lots of money nowadays. Jhikpghf

**SecretGeek**

What is an average attractive physically fit married man with a high sex drive supposed to do if he gets turned down repeatedly by his wife?

**LOPster Jesus**

SecretGeek Wrote:

What is an average attractive physically fit married man with a high sex drive supposed to do if he gets turned down repeatedly by his wife?

That is a tough one. My guess is though there is something below the surface that is keeping her from it. The thing that I heard most was that I was "not being romantic enough". It's a b*tch, because when you have got physical needs, you feel like "c'mon can't you help out the man you love?", but she somewhere along the way got to feeling like a sex object.

So I found the best remedy was to give them what they want, and usually they give you what you want. Yah know, surprise them with flowers, maybe cook for them (if they usually cook) or take them to a romantic dinner. Be like touchy feely but not overly sexual about it. Be intimate and without letting your horniness show through (I know that is a real bear when you have been without for a while). But that seems to work best. Pretend like it's highschool and that you have not even gotten to 3rd base yet.

I can' make any guarantees, but that has worked pretty well for me. Wish I would have gotten that when I was younger with some of the relationships I was in. The sex was great, it was just a rarity because I was I horndog 20 something chuckle

**Chawlee**

SecretGeek Wrote:

What is an average attractive physically fit married man with a high sex drive supposed to do if he gets turned down repeatedly by his wife?

Re-evaluate your choices and correct the bad ones.

**SecretGeek**

kettlnaut Wrote:

SecretGeek Wrote:
What is an average attractive physically fit married man with a high sex drive supposed to do if he gets turned down repeatedly by his wife?
That is a tough one. My guess is though there is something below the surface that is keeping her from it. The thing that I heard most was that I was "not being romantic enough". It's a b*tch, because when you have got physical needs, you feel like "c'mon can't you help out the man you love?", but she somewhere along the way got to feeling like a sex object.

So I found the best remedy was to give them what they want, and usually they give you what you want. Yah know, surprise them with flowers, maybe cook for them (if they usually cook) or take them to a romantic dinner. Be like touchy feely but not overly sexual about it. Be intimate and without letting your horniness show through (I know that is a real bear when you have been without for a while). But that seems to work best. Pretend like it's highschool and that you have not even gotten to 3rd base yet.

I can' make any guarantees, but that has worked pretty well for me. Wish I would have gotten that when I was younger with some of the relationships I was in. The sex was great, it was just a rarity because I was I horndog 20 something

How about a healthy dose of anti-depressant medicine?

**SecretGeek**

Chawlee Wrote:

SecretGeek Wrote:
What is an average attractive physically fit married man with a high sex drive supposed to do if he gets turned down repeatedly by his wife?

Re-evaluate your choices and correct the bad ones.

Get an opaque shower door instead of a translucent one? chuckle

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 1725 11-22-2011 11:34 PM

kettlnaut Wrote:

SecretGeek Wrote:
What is an average attractive physically fit married man with a high sex drive supposed to do if he gets turned down repeatedly by his wife?
That is a tough one. My guess is though there is something below the surface that is keeping her from it. The thing that I heard most was that I was "not being romantic enough". It's a b*tch, because when you have got physical needs, you feel like "c'mon can't you help out the man you love?", but she somewhere along the way got to feeling like a sex object.

So I found the best remedy was to give them what they want, and usually they give you what you want. Yah know, surprise them with flowers, maybe cook for them (if they usually cook) or take them to a romantic dinner. Be like touchy feely but not overly sexual about it. Be intimate and without letting your horniness show through (I know that is a real bear when you have been without for a while). But that seems to work best. Pretend like it's highschool and that you have not even gotten to 3rd base yet.

I can' make any guarantees, but that has worked pretty well for me. Wish I would have gotten that when I was younger with some of the relationships I was in. The sex was great, it was just a rarity because I was I horndog 20 something

That sounds like the first step to being whipped. No offense Im sure it works....but if she can pout a little and hold out on you till she gets what she wants....then she has you by the balls. If I wanted to go through the bullshit of romancing a woman everytime I wanted sex it would damn sure be a different woman each time.

**LOPster Jesus** · (This post was last modified: 11-23-2011 12:06 AM by LOPster Jesus.)

LoP Guest Wrote:

kettlnaut Wrote:
SecretGeek Wrote:
What is an average attractive physically fit married man with a high sex drive supposed to do if he gets turned down repeatedly by his wife?
That is a tough one. My guess is though there is something below the surface that is keeping her from it. The thing that I heard most was that I was "not being romantic enough". It's a b*tch, because when you have got physical needs, you feel like "c'mon can't you help out the man you love?", but she somewhere along the way got to feeling like a sex object.

So I found the best remedy was to give them what they want, and usually they give you what you want. Yah know, surprise them with flowers, maybe cook for them (if they usually cook) or take them to a romantic dinner. Be like touchy feely but not overly sexual about it. Be intimate and without letting your horniness show through (I know that is a real bear when you have been without for a while). But that seems to work best. Pretend like it's highschool and that you have not even gotten to 3rd base yet.

I can' make any guarantees, but that has worked pretty well for me. Wish I would have gotten that when I was younger with some of the relationships I was in. The sex was great, it was just a rarity because I was I horndog 20 something

That sounds like the first step to being whipped. No offense Im sure it works....but if she can pout a little and hold out on you till she gets what she wants....then she has you by the balls. If I wanted to go through the bullshit of romancing a woman everytime I wanted sex it would damn sure be a different woman each time.

Yeah I hear ya, problem is that teh woman almost always has the upper hand in that it seems like guys almost always have the higher sex drive. Supply and demand. If you can learn to do some give and take then you aren't going to get anywhere. Not that it means you should let her walk all over you, but its kinda like renting movies. Sometimes you get to rent the latest action flick, sometimes you have to go rent the Notebook or some shit.

But if you actually sit and watch it with her and contain the sarcastic remarks, you will be a lot closer to gettin some IMO. Works pretty well with my current lady. IDK maybe she is just a reasonable human being, or maybe she just likes sex more than most chicks. Either way for once we are both happy.

**The Lucky AC** Everything in life is luck User ID: 888 11-23-2011 12:01 AM

Very bias, boys. Men can be weird about sex too, I aught to know, my husbands is scared to death of the activity, touching and sleeping in the same bed even.. 5 years down without sex and numerous requests as to weather or not he would like a divorce and we're still fumbling though the whole madness.

The short of it is he hates sex, intimacy and would prolly kill me if I pushed trying to cuddle him while he sleeps, and his piano teacher fiddled with him when his parents went home.

Wish I'd have known 11 years ago the man was so messed up.

So blame it all on the girls... Men are f*cked up too

**Skeptic™** · **Skeptic™** User ID: 62978 11-23-2011 12:08 AM **Posts: 6,174**

Arch Phoenix Wrote:

Doomsday Space Vaginas, too!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hj1idKXAiCk

**LOPster Jesus** · (This post was last modified: 11-23-2011 12:12 AM by LOPster Jesus.)

The Lucky AC Wrote:

Very bias, boys. Men can be weird about sex too, I aught to know, my husbands is scared to death of the activity, touching and sleeping in the same bed even.. 5 years down without sex and numerous requests as to weather or not he would like a divorce and we're still fumbling though the whole madness.

The short of it is he hates sex, intimacy and would prolly kill me if I pushed trying to cuddle him while he sleeps, and his piano teacher fiddled with him when his parents went home.

Wish I'd have known 11 years ago the man was so messed up.

So blame it all on the girls... Men are f*cked up too

Yeah guess that's true. Sorry to generalize, just basing my advice on my own personal experiences and the fact that it seems to be mostly men on here complaining about lack of sex. There is probably a LOT more to it then just the men and women factor, everyone is unique in their needs and their desires.

However women with a strong sex drive who can balance their life and not just be a total slut are rare. guys who will stick their dick in just about anything are not. So I am sorry for your difficulty, but it sounds more like your hubby is an individual who has personal issues that need to be dealt with beyond the strength of their sex drive.

Not trying to cast harsh judgments but it sounds like the poor man has been absolutely traumatized over sex. That is probably going to require some counseling or some kind of outside help. I wish you the best, I hope you guys can overcome the issue together. If you do, it will definitely strengthen the bond between the two of you.

Pi Infinity User ID: 3.14159265 11-23-2011 12:17 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ol9_Iz4yj...re=related

**LOPster Jesus**

Pi Wrote:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ol9_Iz4yj...re=related

This movie was so disturbing. I feel sorry for rape victims who probably thought this movie was great, but I for one would never have sex again if it meant risking losing my manhood! Tissue

**Son of the Widow**

Average Housewife Wrote:

How very sad. But I suspect it's worse for the Brits.

~~Doomkopf~~ · **~~Doomkopf~~** Banned User ID: 36058 11-23-2011 12:28 AM **Posts: 2,978**

Outside Child Wrote:

Not getting any? You're not alone: Women today have less time for sex than their 1950s counterparts. And it's estimated that 40 million Americans have what experts call a sexless marriage (having sex less than 10 times a year)...

http://articles.cnn.com/2008-02-12/healt...=PM:HEALTH

it's the soy ( it makes men gay)