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So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
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Bond, James Bond Licensed to kill User ID: 007 05-04-2012 08:53 PM
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So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
The school he is in REFUSES to move him to gifted classes, and they refuse to let him bump up to a higher grade. All of this because he acts out. He acts out because he is bored with his classes. Instead, they want him tested for ADD/ADHD and Aspurger's. Essentially, they want to drug him up so he wont be an issue. My parents had him tested privately to see if their was any validity in the school's claims. The Dr. they took him to said he doesn't have ADD or ADHD or aspurgers, that he is probably just very bored in school, and to move him to a gifted program where he can be challenged. Today my family tells me that he came home with his finger purple and swollen from P.E. class, where the teacher refused to let him see a nurse because 1.) He's been to the nurse for stomach aches, which they accused him of faking (wtf?) 2.) Too many kids had already gone to see the nurse that day (WTF!?). after an x-ray, the Dr says his finger may be fractured at the growth plate. This is what now goes on in the public school system. Teachers aren't trained to recognize when children are above the curve. They are trained to belittle, and recommend meds to keep everyone at the same level. My family has already decided to pull him out of school, and he will be home schooled next year.
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SexualChocolate الشوكولاته الجنسي User ID: 16352 05-04-2012 08:55 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
DO NOT DRUG HIM.
home school home school home school. get him the f*ck out of public schools.
talk to your parents about getting the kid a grant for private school and tutors.
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Bond, James Bond Licensed to kill User ID: 007 05-04-2012 08:57 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
SexualChocolate Wrote:DO NOT DRUG HIM.
home school home school home school. get him the f*ck out of public schools.
talk to your parents about getting the kid a grant for private school and tutors.
thats the plan 
He doesn't need drugs. He needs a curriculum that can actually stimulate his mind.
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Bond, James Bond Licensed to kill User ID: 007 05-04-2012 08:58 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
It reminds me of Harrison Bergeron.
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Bond, James Bond Licensed to kill User ID: 007 05-04-2012 09:01 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
1 *? but its not religious or ron paul related!
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Geogal  keeper of CnB Chubacabra User ID: 12308 05-04-2012 09:01 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
aspurgers doesn't mean dumb.
ADD ADHD doesn't mean dumb.
both mean the kid has more of a challenge.
Look into a skill not pills group. He may have a hearing issue that can cause some of the acting out. Also, Feingold diet may help if he's hyperactive
http://www.feingold.org/
it promotes removal mostly of HFC, food dyes, and MSG which kids don't need anyhow.
There are many resources out there that can help.
Above all, avoid drugging him if at all possible. Some very smart can't focus without drugs, but once on them, even if you could have learned to focus without, you won't be able to get off them.
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Formosa's Law “The truly insane have enough on their plates without us adding to it.”
AKA, flaming someone with an obvious mental problem can't make it better.
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(This post was last modified: 05-04-2012 09:02 PM by Geogal.)
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Bond, James Bond Licensed to kill User ID: 007 05-04-2012 09:02 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
feverpitch Wrote:Bond, James Bond Wrote:
"he will be home schooled next year."
That's a good idea. This way when he acts out, you can beat the shit out of him and the school won't have to know.
yes. precisely. we're going to beat the smart out of him.
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Bond, James Bond Licensed to kill User ID: 007 05-04-2012 09:08 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
Geogal Wrote:aspurgers doesn't mean dumb.
ADD ADHD doesn't mean dumb.
both mean the kid has more of a challenge.
Look into a skill not pills group. He may have a hearing issue that can cause some of the acting out. Also, Feingold diet may help if he's hyperactive
http://www.feingold.org/
it promotes removal mostly of HFC, food dyes, and MSG which kids don't need anyhow.
There are many resources out there that can help.
Above all, avoid drugging him if at all possible. Some very smart can't focus without drugs, but once on them, even if you could have learned to focus without, you won't be able to get off them.
i never said they meant dumb. I fully understand this. The issue is that he has been tested for all 3 and they said he was fine. The same thing happened to me when i was younger (though I wouldnt doubt the ADD on my part  )  . Rather than just move him up to a grade level that suits him (considering his reading comprehension is already at a high school level), they want to label and drug him. Thank you for the info though I'll look into it, and let my parents know.
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Indigenous Intelligence Registered User User ID: 70676 05-04-2012 09:10 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
He is smarter than 99.85% of the continent of Africa
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Wolf Pup Can I hug your leg? User ID: 15878 05-04-2012 09:11 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
I hate it when kids can kick my ass in smarts!
"When life hands you a lime....."
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Bond, James Bond Licensed to kill User ID: 007 05-04-2012 09:12 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
Indigenous Intelligence Wrote:He is smarter than 99.85% of the continent of Africa 
and yet YOU are not!
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Geogal  keeper of CnB Chubacabra User ID: 12308 05-04-2012 09:12 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
Bond, James Bond Wrote:Geogal Wrote:aspurgers doesn't mean dumb.
ADD ADHD doesn't mean dumb.
both mean the kid has more of a challenge.
Look into a skill not pills group. He may have a hearing issue that can cause some of the acting out. Also, Feingold diet may help if he's hyperactive
http://www.feingold.org/
it promotes removal mostly of HFC, food dyes, and MSG which kids don't need anyhow.
There are many resources out there that can help.
Above all, avoid drugging him if at all possible. Some very smart can't focus without drugs, but once on them, even if you could have learned to focus without, you won't be able to get off them.
i never said they meant dumb. I fully understand this. The issue is that he has been tested for all 3 and they said he was fine. The same thing happened to me when i was younger (though I wouldnt doubt the ADD on my part ) . Rather than just move him up to a grade level that suits him (considering his reading comprehension is already at a high school level), they want to label and drug him. Thank you for the info though I'll look into it, and let my parents know.

so... if he's been tested and the results are no, wtf are they doing trying to label and drug?    sometimes I hate school systems.
Chupi enjoys crumpled threads, drizzled with Balsamic vinegar, and Tiny likes Raw Trollmeat sushi-like.
![[Image: geodoom-tiny.png]](http://i118.photobucket.com/albums/o106/DaJav00/geodoom-tiny.png)
Formosa's Law “The truly insane have enough on their plates without us adding to it.”
AKA, flaming someone with an obvious mental problem can't make it better.
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Bond, James Bond Licensed to kill User ID: 007 05-04-2012 09:13 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
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Bond, James Bond Licensed to kill User ID: 007 05-04-2012 09:15 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
Geogal Wrote:Bond, James Bond Wrote:Geogal Wrote:aspurgers doesn't mean dumb.
ADD ADHD doesn't mean dumb.
both mean the kid has more of a challenge.
Look into a skill not pills group. He may have a hearing issue that can cause some of the acting out. Also, Feingold diet may help if he's hyperactive
http://www.feingold.org/
it promotes removal mostly of HFC, food dyes, and MSG which kids don't need anyhow.
There are many resources out there that can help.
Above all, avoid drugging him if at all possible. Some very smart can't focus without drugs, but once on them, even if you could have learned to focus without, you won't be able to get off them.
i never said they meant dumb. I fully understand this. The issue is that he has been tested for all 3 and they said he was fine. The same thing happened to me when i was younger (though I wouldnt doubt the ADD on my part ) . Rather than just move him up to a grade level that suits him (considering his reading comprehension is already at a high school level), they want to label and drug him. Thank you for the info though I'll look into it, and let my parents know.

so... if he's been tested and the results are no, wtf are they doing trying to label and drug?   sometimes I hate school systems.
EXACTLY. Harrison Bergeron. Everyone must be equal no matter what.
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HarryCanyon Banned User ID: 94133 05-04-2012 09:15 PM
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RE: So my little brother is 9 y.o. with an IQ of 130, but...
So your little brother is super smart but not smart enough to follow the bullshit rules?
Im sick of the excuses "he is a gifted star child and has to entertained at all times".
Bottom line, if you brother were as smart as you claim we would not be having this conversation.
Also.... what is with everyone thinking someone in their family is super smart?
Did he or she invent faster than light travel? No?...THEN SHUT THE f*ck UP.
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(This post was last modified: 05-04-2012 09:15 PM by HarryCanyon.)
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