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**Anonymous Carrot** lop guest User ID: 3531 05-16-2012 04:28 PM

There are women on the internets?

**The Evil AC** I am not a number!!! User ID: 666 05-16-2012 04:29 PM

Troll Alert ! ! !

Jptdknpa

Get A Rope.
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**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 96396 05-16-2012 04:29 PM

Flountastic Wrote:

LoP Guest Wrote:
The Lucky AC Wrote:
I'm curious about this myself.

Of course I've discussed it with him. And he says he's finished with such sites....clearly not the case.
I am not a controlling person, I do not "check out his computer" but I do expect honesty and loyalty at all times. I appreciate those of you who answered maturely. Perhaps he'll read this and wake up!

Why do you have a problem with sites such as this? Because honestly if you came on here and said that he has an addiction to the site, and it's a problem. That would have been a totally different situation

But you didn't. Your issue was him flirting. And flirting as a guest???

That is absolutely, totally over the top control!

And you don't even seem to realize it.

Just curious... How old are you and your boyfriend?

How is it over the top? When you see your partner telling other women how hot and attractive they are? It pisses me off to no end. If you accept that in a partner fine, but I don't.

**Sireen**

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 96396 05-16-2012 04:30 PM

Wolf Pup Wrote:

If you are really concerned, you can get a "keylogger" for pretty cheap. then you can have all the proof you need.

We don't share computers :(

**mOtOrCiTy** lop guest User ID: 31487 05-16-2012 04:30 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

Flountastic Wrote:
LoP Guest Wrote:
Of course I've discussed it with him. And he says he's finished with such sites....clearly not the case.
I am not a controlling person, I do not "check out his computer" but I do expect honesty and loyalty at all times. I appreciate those of you who answered maturely. Perhaps he'll read this and wake up!

Why do you have a problem with sites such as this? Because honestly if you came on here and said that he has an addiction to the site, and it's a problem. That would have been a totally different situation

But you didn't. Your issue was him flirting. And flirting as a guest???

That is absolutely, totally over the top control!

And you don't even seem to realize it.

Just curious... How old are you and your boyfriend?

How is it over the top? When you see your partner telling other women how hot and attractive they are? It pisses me off to no end. If you accept that in a partner fine, but I don't.

you still havent answered my question...how do you know its him when he is acting as "guest'??

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 96396 05-16-2012 04:32 PM

mOtOrCiTy Wrote:

LoP Guest Wrote:
Flountastic Wrote:
Why do you have a problem with sites such as this? Because honestly if you came on here and said that he has an addiction to the site, and it's a problem. That would have been a totally different situation

But you didn't. Your issue was him flirting. And flirting as a guest???

That is absolutely, totally over the top control!

And you don't even seem to realize it.

Just curious... How old are you and your boyfriend?

How is it over the top? When you see your partner telling other women how hot and attractive they are? It pisses me off to no end. If you accept that in a partner fine, but I don't.

you still havent answered my question...how do you know its him when he is acting as "guest'??

I have answered a few times. I recognize his writing and the 'usual' ladies he follows.......his posts are pretty indicative of his personality and thoughts. Isn't rocket science.

**Elizabeth**

Wolf Pup Wrote:

If you are really concerned, you can get a "keylogger" for pretty cheap. then you can have all the proof you need.

Are you serious???

Here where we talk about our rights to privacy, you are actually encouraging this?

Encouraging this obvious control freak to ACTUALLY spy on her BOYFRIEND? It isn't like a marriage, or family, is at stake, its her BOYFRIEND for pete's sake!

If it came down to that, and the trust issues were that bad, they don't need to be together anyway.

**Wolf Pup**

Damn..I should of named my puppy thread to the title of this one...I would of gotten a lot of hits!! Tissue

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 55400 05-16-2012 04:34 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

Flountastic Wrote:
LoP Guest Wrote:
Of course I've discussed it with him. And he says he's finished with such sites....clearly not the case.
I am not a controlling person, I do not "check out his computer" but I do expect honesty and loyalty at all times. I appreciate those of you who answered maturely. Perhaps he'll read this and wake up!

Why do you have a problem with sites such as this? Because honestly if you came on here and said that he has an addiction to the site, and it's a problem. That would have been a totally different situation

But you didn't. Your issue was him flirting. And flirting as a guest???

That is absolutely, totally over the top control!

And you don't even seem to realize it.

Just curious... How old are you and your boyfriend?

How is it over the top? When you see your partner telling other women how hot and attractive they are? It pisses me off to no end. If you accept that in a partner fine, but I don't.

Ahh so a man is not supposed to recognize the beauty in other women, even though he has a mate? You do realize that the idea of being with one woman started only about 300 years ago right? Up until then it was an all out orgy up in here..

You really should stop thinking the world revolves around you, because baby, it doesn't.. You can be replaced in the blink of a f*ckin' eye.

**mOtOrCiTy** lop guest User ID: 31487 05-16-2012 04:34 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

mOtOrCiTy Wrote:
LoP Guest Wrote:
How is it over the top? When you see your partner telling other women how hot and attractive they are? It pisses me off to no end. If you accept that in a partner fine, but I don't.

you still havent answered my question...how do you know its him when he is acting as "guest'??

I have answered a few times. I recognize his writing and the 'usual' ladies he follows.......his posts are pretty indicative of his personality and thoughts. Isn't rocket science.

**Wolf Pup**

Flountastic Wrote:

Wolf Pup Wrote:
If you are really concerned, you can get a "keylogger" for pretty cheap. then you can have all the proof you need.

Are you serious???

Here where we talk about our rights to privacy, you are actually encouraging this?

Encouraging this obvious control freak to ACTUALLY spy on her BOYFRIEND? It isn't like a marriage, or family, is at stake, its her BOYFRIEND for pete's sake!

If it came down to that, and the trust issues were that bad, they don't need to be together anyway.

HMMMM...and this thread exisits because.........

**CourtDude**

But I thought all of us flirting on here have wives, husbands, boyfriends and girlfriends, just not at the same time of course.

As for me, my wife doesn't feel the least bit slighted with my posts on here and I'm a huge flirt, especially with one LOPer, but its probably not flirting cause the feelings are genuine!

We even have an open invite for her and a few other LOP'ers to stop by and stay a weekend when they are in the area and vice-versa.

And just this past weekend we enjoyed a day fishing and had steaks on the grill at LOPer Aalia's home. Cheer

Having 'friends' on line here isn't a problem, maybe its his home life your boyfriend needs to work on more?

**SubarcticBeef**

Trying...hard...to...not...make...crude...and...heartless...comment! AAUUGH!! S977

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 96396 05-16-2012 04:36 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

LoP Guest Wrote:
Flountastic Wrote:
Why do you have a problem with sites such as this? Because honestly if you came on here and said that he has an addiction to the site, and it's a problem. That would have been a totally different situation

But you didn't. Your issue was him flirting. And flirting as a guest???

That is absolutely, totally over the top control!

And you don't even seem to realize it.

Just curious... How old are you and your boyfriend?

How is it over the top? When you see your partner telling other women how hot and attractive they are? It pisses me off to no end. If you accept that in a partner fine, but I don't.

Ahh so a man is not supposed to recognize the beauty in other women, even though he has a mate? You do realize that the idea of being with one woman started only about 300 years ago right? Up until then it was an all out orgy up in here..

You really should stop thinking the world revolves around you, because baby, it doesn't.. You can be replaced in the blink of a f*ckin' eye.

As can he "baby"...as can he! I don't send sexual messages to others and I don't expect my mate to either. Your argument about monogamy is irrelevant to this post.