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**Chrysalis** · **Chrysalis** Hi. User ID: 51859 04-28-2012 07:00 AM **Posts: 8,448**

Is it ever? I've just been wondering about life and choices and whether or not destiny plays a role in our existence at all. Is it ever too late to make a change, or to do something you've been meaning to do? What if you don't? Does that just prolong the process, or is something lost?

**Convicted Criminal**

Even if you're 80 years old, you can still become a porn star.

Or you can get married.

**Shakey1**

Too late, my time has come...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJ9rUzIMcZQ

**Chrysalis** · **Chrysalis** Hi. User ID: 51859 04-28-2012 07:04 AM **Posts: 8,448**

Convicted Criminal Wrote:

Even if you're 80 years old, you can still become a porn star.

Or you can get married.

Thanks, Convict...that is really quite encouraging. chuckle

**Chrysalis** · **Chrysalis** Hi. User ID: 51859 04-28-2012 07:05 AM **Posts: 8,448**

Shakey1 Wrote:

Too late, my time has come...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJ9rUzIMcZQ

...sends shivers down my spine...

**Chrysalis** · **Chrysalis** Hi. User ID: 51859 04-28-2012 07:10 AM **Posts: 8,448**

Is there anything you've wanted to do, but haven't, or didn't have the chance to?

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 65558 04-28-2012 07:12 AM

Time to "Get Busy Child"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vn5HvVHpxNI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UA2sBtydBb8

**vintagevixen**

Chrysalis Wrote:

Is it ever? I've just been wondering about life and choices and whether or not destiny plays a role in our existence at all. Is it ever too late to make a change, or to do something you've been meaning to do? What if you don't? Does that just prolong the process, or is something lost?

Well perhaps for some of us but yet you never know. I feel that I am living the consequence of the poor choices I've made in life, (not all though) and at this moment I'm not having the advantage of choice so here I am. Yet again, looking back I wouldn't have done anything different because I followed my heart. So go figure. Destiny? I think so. Some say it is our DNA programming that propels us in our choices and if that is so, then there is no free will.

Life is for learning. And boy have I learned a lot! I'm not bitter, just a little pissed sometimes but I try to understand and stay balanced.

A fascinating topic indeed.
Heartflowers

vv

**Chrysalis** · **Chrysalis** Hi. User ID: 51859 04-28-2012 07:16 AM **Posts: 8,448**

LoP Guest Wrote:

Time to "Get Busy Child"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vn5HvVHpxNI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UA2sBtydBb8

**sia**

Chrysalis Wrote:

Is it ever? I've just been wondering about life and choices and whether or not destiny plays a role in our existence at all. Is it ever too late to make a change, or to do something you've been meaning to do? What if you don't? Does that just prolong the process, or is something lost?

everything is how it is supposed to be as f*cked up as it sounds, what is done is done we are just living it out, why the fascination with theater they say

**Chrysalis** · **Chrysalis** Hi. User ID: 51859 04-28-2012 07:30 AM **Posts: 8,448**

vintagevixen Wrote:

Chrysalis Wrote:
Is it ever? I've just been wondering about life and choices and whether or not destiny plays a role in our existence at all. Is it ever too late to make a change, or to do something you've been meaning to do? What if you don't? Does that just prolong the process, or is something lost?

Well perhaps for some of us but yet you never know. I feel that I am living the consequence of the poor choices I've made in life, (not all though) and at this moment I'm not having the advantage of choice so here I am. Yet again, looking back I wouldn't have done anything different because I followed my heart. So go figure. Destiny? I think so. Some say it is our DNA programming that propels us in our choices and if that is so, then there is no free will.

Life is for learning. And boy have I learned a lot! I'm not bitter, just a little pissed sometimes but I try to understand and stay balanced.

A fascinating topic indeed.

vv

Oh, I feel ya, vv. It all comes down to choices...and trust me, I've made my share of "questionable" ones. It comes down to living with the results of said choices, which I am okay with. On a deeper level, though, I'm wondering if it's not too late to make new choices...ones that would better fit our lives at present. Unfortunately, that would leave some people in the dust. Not an easy thing to do. Heartflowers

**Chrysalis** · **Chrysalis** Hi. User ID: 51859 04-28-2012 07:32 AM **Posts: 8,448**

Sia Wrote:

Chrysalis Wrote:
Is it ever? I've just been wondering about life and choices and whether or not destiny plays a role in our existence at all. Is it ever too late to make a change, or to do something you've been meaning to do? What if you don't? Does that just prolong the process, or is something lost?

everything is how it is supposed to be as f*cked up as it sounds, what is done is done we are just living it out, why the fascination with theater they say

All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players. If I'm stuck here playing on this stage, I'd at least like enjoy myself. Heartflowers

**Chrysalis** · **Chrysalis** Hi. User ID: 51859 04-28-2012 07:43 AM **Posts: 8,448**

So the original question was does destiny play a role in our lives, or is it completely up to us. And if it is up to us, is there a point when it becomes too late.

**sia**

Chrysalis Wrote:

Sia Wrote:
Chrysalis Wrote:
Is it ever? I've just been wondering about life and choices and whether or not destiny plays a role in our existence at all. Is it ever too late to make a change, or to do something you've been meaning to do? What if you don't? Does that just prolong the process, or is something lost?

everything is how it is supposed to be as f*cked up as it sounds, what is done is done we are just living it out, why the fascination with theater they say

All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players. If I'm stuck here playing on this stage, I'd at least like enjoy myself.

treat your self dont cheat yourself

**vintagevixen**

Chrysalis Wrote:

vintagevixen Wrote:
Chrysalis Wrote:
Is it ever? I've just been wondering about life and choices and whether or not destiny plays a role in our existence at all. Is it ever too late to make a change, or to do something you've been meaning to do? What if you don't? Does that just prolong the process, or is something lost?

Well perhaps for some of us but yet you never know. I feel that I am living the consequence of the poor choices I've made in life, (not all though) and at this moment I'm not having the advantage of choice so here I am. Yet again, looking back I wouldn't have done anything different because I followed my heart. So go figure. Destiny? I think so. Some say it is our DNA programming that propels us in our choices and if that is so, then there is no free will.

Life is for learning. And boy have I learned a lot! I'm not bitter, just a little pissed sometimes but I try to understand and stay balanced.

A fascinating topic indeed.

vv

Oh, I feel ya, vv. It all comes down to choices...and trust me, I've made my share of "questionable" ones. It comes down to living with the results of said choices, which I am okay with. On a deeper level, though, I'm wondering if it's not too late to make new choices...ones that would better fit our lives at present. Unfortunately, that would leave some people in the dust. Not an easy thing to do.

Chrysalis I think you have already made your choice. And there probably is no right time to act if that's what you're wondering, so just do it....don't mean to be presumptuous but I think I get your drift.

All the best to you,

vv