CourtDude  Wrote:

Okay, we have three female friends that we are that close to; my wife would have no problem with me being with them. With them.

She has said so and even said if one particular friend spent the night she wanted me in the middle. Those were her plans for this past weekend. Her friends schedule just didn't work out.

Anyone else would be a problem.

Well, it sounds to me that your wife is still ruling your sexual life, and who and when you are allowed to express your libido with.

If she really wants you to be happy sexually, she needs to let you be totally free to choose your lover. Stranger or not. The risk of becoming emotionally involved is a possibility that she should be willing to accept, since she can't match your sexual needs.

To me the fact is that we are not monogamus by nature. Boredom and lack of admiration due to rutine, makes sex less exciting for married women. Men don't need the 'fairy tale'. Sex can be performed in a few minutes and that's it. Sexuality is lived entirely different between sexes, but we insist on disguising the whole issue with romance, love, and etc. Not true.

I think this pic describes me BedHer!:)

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