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**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 91654 04-25-2012 11:33 AM

Jesus. I'm serious he cured my depression.

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 42956 04-25-2012 11:47 AM

LoP Guest Wrote:

Jesus. I'm serious he cured my depression.

**FreedomStands**

LoP Guest Wrote:

Jesus. I'm serious he cured my depression.

Oh, I thought you were commenting about my post!

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 92524 04-25-2012 01:16 PM

ashesandsackcloth Wrote:

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...Don't put anything on your skin you wouldn't eat. Great rule of thumb that will serve you well.

Does that include underwear?

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 92244 04-25-2012 01:24 PM

Hey we are all depressed since obama went into office, dont feel bad, he wont be reelected again.

**depressed** lop guest User ID: 92621 04-25-2012 08:58 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

depressed Wrote:
LoP Guest Wrote:
No problem. I know it sucks to trust someone and end up getting hurt in the end. I suppose somehow we'll survive, perhaps even end up stronger and wiser because of it.
The sad part is the person is truly sorry. I have forgiven them, but I get angry at myself that I am still worrying that it might happen again. Silly, I know. I need to allow myself to trust again and that is what is depressing me, I think ...

So you got back with him?

I never left him. Why would I leave? I have no desire to ever get involved with another man anyway. They are all the same. Might as well make the relationship I am in work, a lot easier than starting over.

**Moranic_Mayhem** lop guest User ID: 14081 04-25-2012 09:10 PM

depressed Wrote:

LoP Guest Wrote:
depressed Wrote:
The sad part is the person is truly sorry. I have forgiven them, but I get angry at myself that I am still worrying that it might happen again. Silly, I know. I need to allow myself to trust again and that is what is depressing me, I think ...

So you got back with him?

I never left him. Why would I leave? I have no desire to ever get involved with another man anyway. They are all the same. Might as well make the relationship I am in work, a lot easier than starting over.

There is a song for that.. ;)

Listen.. then tell me how you feel afterwards.. Hugs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utc09QGs-3c

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 90900 04-25-2012 09:15 PM

depressed Wrote:

and fear that if I go on big pharma meds I will never come off them.

Get a hobby and stick with it! How bout herbs that would keep people off meds.............

**depressed** lop guest User ID: 92621 04-25-2012 09:17 PM

Moranic_Mayhem Wrote:

depressed Wrote:
LoP Guest Wrote:
So you got back with him?

I never left him. Why would I leave? I have no desire to ever get involved with another man anyway. They are all the same. Might as well make the relationship I am in work, a lot easier than starting over.

There is a song for that.. ;)

Listen.. then tell me how you feel afterwards..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utc09QGs-3c

Good song! I love john lennon Heartflowers

**depressed** lop guest User ID: 92621 04-25-2012 09:21 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

depressed Wrote:
and fear that if I go on big pharma meds I will never come off them.

Get a hobby and stick with it! How bout herbs that would keep people off meds.............

A hobby is right! I have two right now and I am.finding they help.

Btw, today was much better. I ate a banana, too!

One more day,no meds .... just riding the wave :/

**Moranic_Meltdown**

Glad it was a start.. Bigkiss

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 88359 04-25-2012 09:41 PM

depressed Wrote:

I never left him. Why would I leave? I have no desire to ever get involved with another man anyway. They are all the same. Might as well make the relationship I am in work, a lot easier than starting over.

Yikes. That sounds a bit like codependency to me. The fear of starting over with someone else (or don't forget, you could always just be single for a while) isn't enough reason to stay with something less than ideal. How far would you take that logic of yours? If someone was physically abusive to you is that still better than starting over? If someone cheats on you is that still better than being single? Take care of yourself first and foremost. Hugs

**depressed** lop guest User ID: 92621 04-25-2012 09:56 PM

LoP Guest Wrote:

depressed Wrote:
I never left him. Why would I leave? I have no desire to ever get involved with another man anyway. They are all the same. Might as well make the relationship I am in work, a lot easier than starting over.

Yikes. That sounds a bit like codependency to me. The fear of starting over with someone else (or don't forget, you could always just be single for a while) isn't enough reason to stay with something less than ideal. How far would you take that logic of yours? If someone was physically abusive to you is that still better than starting over? If someone cheats on you is that still better than being single? Take care of yourself first and foremost.

Well I still love him. I'm just hurt and disappointed. That's life. I doubt there are any men out there that have not messed up.

Time heals all wounds. I just have to be patient. Good things come to those who wait, right? chuckle

I hope!

**Moranic_Meltdown** · (This post was last modified: 04-25-2012 10:03 PM by Moranic_Meltdown.)

depressed Wrote:

LoP Guest Wrote:
depressed Wrote:
I never left him. Why would I leave? I have no desire to ever get involved with another man anyway. They are all the same. Might as well make the relationship I am in work, a lot easier than starting over.

Yikes. That sounds a bit like codependency to me. The fear of starting over with someone else (or don't forget, you could always just be single for a while) isn't enough reason to stay with something less than ideal. How far would you take that logic of yours? If someone was physically abusive to you is that still better than starting over? If someone cheats on you is that still better than being single? Take care of yourself first and foremost.

Well I still love him. I'm just hurt and disappointed. That's life. I doubt there are any men out there that have not messed up.

Time heals all wounds. I just have to be patient. Good things come to those who wait, right? I hope!

Have a song for that.. chuckle

Time heals.. though don't fight time, it moves soo fast.. Heartflowers

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHVeyo4W18U

**depressed** lop guest User ID: 92621 04-25-2012 10:31 PM

Moranic_Meltdown Wrote:

depressed Wrote:
LoP Guest Wrote:
Yikes. That sounds a bit like codependency to me. The fear of starting over with someone else (or don't forget, you could always just be single for a while) isn't enough reason to stay with something less than ideal. How far would you take that logic of yours? If someone was physically abusive to you is that still better than starting over? If someone cheats on you is that still better than being single? Take care of yourself first and foremost.
Well I still love him. I'm just hurt and disappointed. That's life. I doubt there are any men out there that have not messed up.
Time heals all wounds. I just have to be patient. Good things come to those who wait, right? I hope!
Have a song for that..
Time heals.. though don't fight time, it moves soo fast..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHVeyo4W18U

I guess only time will tell. If this relationship fails, I'm done. I am just too broken to ever even think about another man. And like I said before, why bother? To get hurt again? I'd rather keep myself pure and preserve what little self esteem I have left. I'll never give myself away to anyone. Not worth the pain. Depression is manageable, pain is not.