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**flumoxed** lop guest User ID: 79388 04-03-2012 07:31 AM

here's the deal ...a loved one committed suicide...l'm too distraught to think beyond their death...there are great and small minds here...please anyone have any input ??

**Sarah**

Sorry, no words of wisdom. It's a pain you'll never fully recover from.

Sorry for your loss.

op lop guest User ID: 79388 04-03-2012 07:34 AM

Sarah Wrote:

Sorry, no words of wisdom. It's a pain you'll never fully recover from.

Sorry for your loss.

her daughters name was Sara

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 15555 04-03-2012 07:34 AM

they are dead

nothing happens to them

they are gone

**Geogal**

sorry for your loss. Hope you can find answers. different religions believe different things. different people believe different things. Hope you can find solace. Grief counseling is often helpful, even if it's just a support group. I recommend going. I am. Heartflowers

**ZeroToad**

As far as the person is concerned, they're gone. Hugs

As far as their Soul is concerned, its having fun playing sum where else now. :thumbup

Sew don't mourn, be happy their Soul is now having the time of their life. Cheer

Ribbit

**Sarah**

op Wrote:

Sarah Wrote:
Sorry, no words of wisdom. It's a pain you'll never fully recover from.

Sorry for your loss.

her daughters name was Sara

If it's any consolation, I believe they're still with us in spirit. Many things have happened since his death that led to that belief. Watch for signs.

Hugs

**ZeroToad**

Geogal Wrote:

sorry for your loss. Hope you can find answers. different religions believe different things. different people believe different things. Hope you can find solace. Grief counseling is often helpful, even if it's just a support group. I recommend going. I am.

If you ever need sum one to talk to, feel free to PM me but only if you aren't afraid of the truth. Hugs

Ribbit

**Sarah** · (This post was last modified: 04-03-2012 07:39 AM by Sarah.)

To OP and Geogal, this is a support group that was a lot of help to me in the couple of years after it happened.

Friends and Families of Suicides Internet Community
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/FFofSuicides/

OP lop guest User ID: 79388 04-03-2012 07:40 AM

Sarah Wrote:

op Wrote:
Sarah Wrote:
Sorry, no words of wisdom. It's a pain you'll never fully recover from.

Sorry for your loss.

her daughters name was Sara

If it's any consolation, I believe they're still with us in spirit. Many things have happened since his death that led to that belief. Watch for signs.

I received a sign ...it was written with a charcoal like substance each letter gone over three or four times in block lettering, one word : OBADIAH

op lop guest User ID: 79388 04-03-2012 07:41 AM

ZeroToad Wrote:

Geogal Wrote:
sorry for your loss. Hope you can find answers. different religions believe different things. different people believe different things. Hope you can find solace. Grief counseling is often helpful, even if it's just a support group. I recommend going. I am.

If you ever need sum one to talk to, feel free to PM me but only if you aren't afraid of the truth.

Ribbit

TELL ME THE TRUTH HERE..perhaps others need to hear it as well

**Geogal** · (This post was last modified: 04-03-2012 07:44 AM by Geogal.)

ZeroToad Wrote:

Geogal Wrote:
sorry for your loss. Hope you can find answers. different religions believe different things. different people believe different things. Hope you can find solace. Grief counseling is often helpful, even if it's just a support group. I recommend going. I am.

If you ever need sum one to talk to, feel free to PM me but only if you aren't afraid of the truth.

Ribbit

as I see it, everyones truth is a bit different, but it's what comforts them and it's where they find solace. Peace of mind of the living is what I think most important.

Sarah, thanks! IT's been a hell of a year for loss for me an my family... not over yet... but it's not suicide related for me.
Hugs

Op... remember 1 thing. You are not alone. There are many out there who understand, sympathise and empathize. Heartflowers

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 66931 04-03-2012 07:43 AM

LoP Guest Wrote:

they are dead

nothing happens to them

they are gone

same with people who die from all other causes too.... doomed

**LoP Guest** lop guest User ID: 78866 04-03-2012 07:47 AM

you are, I am, 100 watts of electricity...you can not create nor destroy energy...it can be harnessed and converted only...therefore you can not die....

we are all eternal

conversion will happen to all...

if you seek comfort, I shall tell you that there is another side...i have been there many times, briefly....

you shall be what you are, all that you have ever been and all that is to come...

be not sad for what has passed, know now that they are where you will be...

they are part of you now as they always were and as they always will be...

as I am you and you are me

they shall live forever in your soul, as you shall in mine

**Ghenghy**

flumoxed Wrote:

here's the deal ...a loved one committed suicide...l'm too distraught to think beyond their death...there are great and small minds here...please anyone have any input ??

I wouldnt worry about it. There is no eternal punishment as we have been instructed. The pain your loved one endured will be recompensed in the afterlife. Not to worry, sorry for your loss. Heartflowers