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why do women want men to be stern with them?
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09-15-2012 09:01 PM

 



Post: #76
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
Wow OP, the more you type the more it is understandable why no woman on earth would want anything to do with you. They don't like you because you are an ass.


Does your mom know you're gay?
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09-15-2012 09:26 PM

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Post: #77
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
TheSt0rm  Wrote:
I'm sorry all. I haven't gotten to all the replies yet.

I know I have issues to work out. My astrological chart really sux.

But besides that.. I still stand by the expression of my original post. It's just me being honest.

I repeat in my head like a like "all women, all women all women etc. etc." "they hate me, they hate me, they hate me, etc etc"

Because that's what I truly believe. I don't "fit in" with how they want me to be.

It seems, it's not that they want some man who is serious, not like me, not like anyone.

Or at least.. they want a man, who can dominate, yet show like they don't care.


I care. I always care. Some say too much, but I believe it's just the way I should be, and I don't need to fit into the "popular roles" of a men who does not care about anything, is unemotional, detached etc.

Sure there 's a certain amount of "detachedness" that does work though, and I agree with this. There is a point of course where men need to be logical. But if the women likes to fear, gets hot being fearful, that's something else.

I'll get back to reading the rest of the replies.

I think that it's GREAT that you're exploring this part of your life. Kudos to you! Not many people get to this point where they want to work on themselves. The first step is to realize that women are not a homogenous bunch and there ARE women out there on your same level -- but the problem might be that you yourself aren't vibrating on that same level, YET. So how to get there? Work on loving yourself, work on developing independent interests and passions....once you are 100% satisfied with your life, then THAT is the time to look for someone. If you are 50% satisfied with your life, and looking for a woman to fill that lack, you won't find it. Because women are perceptive, and they can see that you are 50% satisfied, and that is what they are not attracted to..... they want to be with someone who is at peace with themselves and the world around them....not someone just looking for a warm body to fill their lack....

Good luck OP! You're off to a great start. :) Hugs

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TheSt0rm
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09-15-2012 09:53 PM

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Post: #78
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
LoP Guest  Wrote:
Wow OP, the more you type the more it is understandable why no woman on earth would want anything to do with you. They don't like you because you are an ass.


Does your mom know you're gay?

Wow I'm an ass?

It is readily apparent that I don't insult people or call names.

You seem to be the one doing just that.
TheSt0rm
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09-17-2012 01:47 PM

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Post: #79
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
YEAH...

This shit needs to stop.
Another way women will do this is act like if I have no clue. They'll just look at me this way for NO reason at all, never having talked to me before, having just met, etc.

It's like a subtle trick. They will subtly act as if they disrespect you but in no extremely obvious manner. And if you don't react to it or address it in an equally subtle or obvious yet lighthearted/playful manner (and they're NOT bieng playful about it either) they'll just continue on with it but perhaps this time even more seriously and obviously.

Until it f*cking bugs the shit out of me and it's just too plain obvious.

So, today's my first day on a job. Let's hope none of these strange women want to do this to me, because I've seriously had opportunities ruined for me (school/job) because of this.

I'm not crazy, I'm not a bad person. I'm just serious, I take things seriously, unlike others.
(This post was last modified: 09-17-2012 01:49 PM by TheSt0rm.)
TheSt0rm
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09-17-2012 01:51 PM

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Post: #80
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
And in my life it's been so hard to explain even just WHAT is going on.
I feel it's a conspiracy.
Or maybe I'm just being targetted.

It's meant to be hard to explain, to identify what's going on because that's how I'm able to be target it.

That's how it carries the emotional charge.

Woman!!!! Stop being shrewd and manipulative!

I treat you with respect and always have. I have always been kind and sincere and been by your side against those who would want to harm you and psychologically/emotionally/verbally and physically abuse you.

And this is how you are with me?

you go back to THOSE SAME MEN who now SUPPOSEDLY only treat you like crap?

What the heck am I to yoU?
(This post was last modified: 09-17-2012 01:53 PM by TheSt0rm.)
TheSt0rm
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09-17-2012 01:55 PM

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Post: #81
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
It's like they just want to test that I have balls and the wit to see through their game. And it does seem like a game.

But I take it seriously, because if it was a game, they would acting so damn serious!


I don't want to treat you like shit, and put you in your place, for no reason. Because of some "game", or "as a game". No.

Serious things, are serious.
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Post: #82
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
How can you act like violating me is a game?

Shrewd manipulative Woman.
TheSt0rm
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09-17-2012 02:01 PM

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Post: #83
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
then of course I know I'll get responses from women who supposedly or act like they don't know wtf I'm talking about and should hang myself before I become a serial killing rapist.

hah.

NO................


Because i'm going to bet it's a subconscious thing for a lot of these women. Probably a majority.

This is there "game" to weed out the so called "beta males". Because "beta males" are assumed to not have the "balls" to put up with their shit.


Well let me tell you this. I'm not aggressive. I have balls (every man literally has balls, every person has sexual organs), I'm just assertive. The fact is women are subtle about this which makes it very hard to confront them about it. It's even hard to explain wtf I'm talking about.

I'm just not to treat you like shit, and NOT NOT CARE ABOUT THAT like you think your definition of 'alpha males' are to be.
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Post: #84
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
Holy crap!!!!1111!!#@12323214


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Post: #85
RE: why do women want men to be stern with them?
This thread has run its course. We're not a blog.

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