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I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
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If she is cheating on you, then definitely leave her.
That is no joke.
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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
∞⚡∞  Wrote: (06-13-2018 07:44 PM)
Maybe just take a break before going all the way.
But not before talking it over with her.
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder".

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If it is meant to be, then it will be.
If not, you can only move forward.

Tho If you have young kids.
You might want to put them before your own selfish desires.
Divorce is counter productive to their happiness.
Unless you are beating the sh*t out of her or something.
Then just kill yourself.


Best of Luck.

Abusers are cowards
I would prefer to elevate a woman. ;)
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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
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∞⚡∞  Wrote: (06-13-2018 07:29 PM)
You got kids?

Nope, hence my hiv status. Basically the disease makes you a non-citizen.

Threw that one in there didn’t cha....chuckle

And of course you want to get with another woman......

All the traits of a great wind up.....

Almost cut my hair.
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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
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∞⚡∞  Wrote: (06-13-2018 07:29 PM)
You got kids?

Nope, hence my hiv status. Basically the disease makes you a non-citizen.

Hiv? Rofl

Sorry.
I am a horrible person.
And I just wasted 10 minutes of my life.
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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
Marriage has its ups and downs. And yes, even periods where you lack intimacy. Have you talked to her? Maybe she’s feeling trapped as well, or maybe she loves you enough to try and work through things...but do you love her enough?

But, I feel ya. My best friend just told me she was going to leave her husband and move home. My heart breaks for her, because she gave it her all for 15 years, but somewhere along the way, he just stopped trying. And now when she tries to discuss it with him, he acts like nothing ever happened. He’s content to just stay in a stagnant relationship.

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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
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singing wilbury spider  Wrote: (06-13-2018 07:33 PM)
sounds like you don't love her
why did you marry?

I luv her a lot, but if there is no spark in the bedroom what's the point.

Watcha mean "no spark" ?
you? her? both?
you gotta work a little to keep the spark alive
are you exciting and lovable? or are you a drag on her?

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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
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If she is cheating on you, then definitely leave her.
That is no joke.

Highly doubtful, she never initiates sex. Now in stating that, I understand the the problem likely is because of my medical situation.
Or maybe she's just not that into me or sex in general. She was a virgin until she was 24
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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
singing wilbury spider  Wrote: (06-13-2018 07:50 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (06-13-2018 07:45 PM)
I luv her a lot, but if there is no spark in the bedroom what's the point.

Watcha mean "no spark" ?
you? her? both?
you gotta work a little to keep the spark alive
are you exciting and lovable? or are you a drag on her?

Both
It's a bit difficult to be exciting at this point in my life.
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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
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∞⚡∞  Wrote: (06-13-2018 07:46 PM)
If she is cheating on you, then definitely leave her.
That is no joke.

Highly doubtful, she never initiates sex. Now in stating that, I understand the the problem likely is because of my medical situation.
Or maybe she's just not that into me or sex in general. She was a virgin until she was 24


I have no experience with your situation.
I am not qualified to give my opinion.
Blessings on your journey doe. ;)
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open marriage maybe?
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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
You sound like you are in depression. Maybe before you make any major moves, you should go talk to someone to see if it's not just depression talking.

Since your sex life is non-existent with your wife, have you talked about more of an open type marriage where you can both get other sexual partners. And open marriage is hard to maintain because of jealousy issues but if you can get over the jealousy, it might work for you.

Think of your marriage as a fluid contract that if both agree, the terms can be modified. Maybe you can adopt a child if you both want a child. Going through CPS, if you are in the USA, is the easiest and cheapest way to adopt a child.

Why don't you move out for a month and see how living by yourself is. You can rent one of those weekly rentals for a month and see how it goes. You go one month and send the wife the next month. No questions asked and no contacting each other. See how it works out. You may find, warts and all, you want to save your marriage.

Having someone that is a good friend and company is worth a whole lot to some people. Besides, you would have to split all your stuff up and it's cheaper for two to live in a place than it is for just one to live there. Pool resources and all that.

Good luck and talk to your wife. You ain't dead yet so quit thinking that the HIV is going to kill you. It might but you might also die from drowning or an accident or someone might shoot you or.... You get the picture.
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RE: I've been thinking about asking my wife for a divorce
LoP Guest  Wrote: (06-13-2018 07:26 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (06-13-2018 07:23 PM)
Well I would not make any hasty decisions on getting divorced if you have been married for some time. Things go in cycles, ups and downs and in between's. One of the worst things you can regret in life is ending a relationship with someone you love. Relationships take work and are not easy. Being happy is a individual task not a collective one so don't equate a relationship to happiness. Best of luck.

It goes a lot deeper than that. I'm hiv+ she's negative, so not really her fault.
I'm just having a difficult time finding any value left in marriage.
Well somewhere out there is the HIV+ girl of your dreams. BTW it's a felony in most states if you knowingly infect a partner without disclosing your positive status. Best of luck.
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I am curious tho.
Did you have hiv before you got married?
Did she know about it?
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OMG!! Bahaha!!
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HIV positive, ahh we can hook you up with DA.
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