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The Purpose of Friendship
VM
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RE: The Purpose of Friendship
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titanic1  Wrote: (01-12-2017 01:23 AM)
I try to start everyone off as a friend, then notch them down depending on their behavior. Lmao

narcs are very tricky creatures.
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RE: The Purpose of Friendship
LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-12-2017 12:20 AM)
titanic1  Wrote: (01-11-2017 10:47 PM)
The spiritual core reason for a friendship is that it can—and is meant to—help us change and grow......

I'm a loner. Friends are a nuisance and a burden. They always want to come over and smoke your weed, drink your beer, and try to borrow money off you just because you're rich. Then they get mad if you say no and stop answering their texts and calls. I have to move every few years just to get the old neighbors off my ass.

A friend is just someone that wants to use you. Humans are parasites. I never seem to be able to benefit from a friendship because none of them have anything I want or need.

My home is always open to anyone that is my friend to come over and smoke weed with me. If they want beer they have to bring their own though because I don't drink. I just find it hard to get out, and my friends don't want to bother to come see me because I am far. I have real friends. They are on an island far away. They would and have loaned me money, and I loan them money, and we go back and forth, and we listen to each otehr, and we commisserate over how f**ked up babylon is. I know who and where my friends are.

Friends are not like family. Family loves you only when convienient. You get to choose and pick your friends, and I will always be a better friend than I feel I have been treated as. if that is my ego, so be it. But I have people taht say they are my friends but don't recognize my limitations or disability since it cannot be seen. So they insult and degrade me without realizing it by judging me for not being able to leave the house at times.

but it's okay.

I really do have friends. just not here.

It's a never ending attack
Ev'rything's a lie and that's a fact
Life is a lemon and I want my money back -meatloaf
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Post: #18
RE: The Purpose of Friendship
VM  Wrote: (01-12-2017 01:24 AM)
titanic1  Wrote: (01-12-2017 01:23 AM)
I try to start everyone off as a friend, then notch them down depending on their behavior. Lmao

narcs are very tricky creatures.

I have realized that only narcissists even use that word. It's insulting, it's a label, and it puts down people without looking into them as human beings.

Only narcissists use the TERM "narc" and "narcissists".

It's a never ending attack
Ev'rything's a lie and that's a fact
Life is a lemon and I want my money back -meatloaf
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VM
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RE: The Purpose of Friendship
Jessme  Wrote: (01-12-2017 01:28 AM)
VM  Wrote: (01-12-2017 01:24 AM)
narcs are very tricky creatures.

I have realized that only narcissists even use that word. It's insulting, it's a label, and it puts down people without looking into them as human beings.

Only narcissists use the TERM "narc" and "narcissists".

They are soulless creatures. They will use you and then toss you aside as soon as you have no use to them. They are not nice people. They have no friends, just ego supplies.
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RE: The Purpose of Friendship
Jessme  Wrote: (01-12-2017 01:28 AM)
VM  Wrote: (01-12-2017 01:24 AM)
narcs are very tricky creatures.

I have realized that only narcissists even use that word. It's insulting, it's a label, and it puts down people without looking into them as human beings.

Only narcissists use the TERM "narc" and "narcissists".

You can't fool me. chuckle
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RE: The Purpose of Friendship
Do narcissists have friends

Not in the usual sense of the word and not that they know of. The narcissist is one track minded. He is interested in securing the provision of Narcissistic Supply emanating from Narcissistic Supply Sources. His world is as narrow as an ant's, to borrow a poetic turn of phrase (from the Hebrew lyrical poetess, Rachel).

This insularity also characterises the narcissist's human and interpersonal relationships. The narcissist is not interested in people as such. Incapable of empathising, he is a solipsist, recognising only himself as human. All others are to him three dimensional cartoons, tools and instruments in the tedious and Sisyphean task of generating and consuming Narcissistic Supply.

The narcissist over-values them (when they are judged to be potential sources of such supply), uses them, devalues them (when no longer able to supply him) and discards them nonchalantly. This behaviour pattern tends to alienate and to distance people from him.


http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Do_Na...iends.html
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RE: The Purpose of Friendship
On the Narcisist issue - to a narc you are no more than an appliance like a toaster. If you quit providing fuel for them they throw you away and get another one. They don't give a damn about you anymore than they do their refrigerator or expresso maker. It either works or it don't.

As far as friends we guys are programmed for this from our ape days. You have to look at chimps who don't need friends because when a predator comes they are on their own to climb a tree.

But we are on the savannah and only if we worked as a team threw rocks at the saber toothed cat could we make it because we couldn't climb trees and swing like apes and we weren't big like gorillas. So its programmed into our brains to have running buddies or join gangs.

If you are alone it creates anxiety for this reason.

Its possible that narcs and psychos evolved for crisis situations where their manipulative malign bs was actually advantageous for the group and their lack of fear might make them a leader and able to do what was necessary. But with the innuit, they just kill them.
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I'm so cool
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unsure RE: The Purpose of Friendship
No one wants to be my friend.

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Im so cool  Wrote: (01-12-2017 02:01 AM)
No one wants to be my friend.

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Hey jessme,hook a brother up.....?
Texas by chance?
Nan=not a narc
Maybe a tad narcistic but sprinkled with grace when obliged.
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RE: The Purpose of Friendship
The purpose of friendship is surveillance.
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I just want some people to drink heavily with me, talk bullshit while drunk, and forget all the bullshit that was talked in the next day.

Why is that so hard?

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I have never had a need or desire for many friends. Honestly, I find myself to be my best friend. I'm always able to keep myself entertained and occupied with my interests and hobbies. Frankly, I really have little time for friends. Sure, I have that circle of lifelong friends that I hook up with maybe once or twice a year, but nobody that comes over anf I see frequently. I really don't have much time for that. I'm 61, retired, and keep myself busy pretty with things. I have an RV and take frequent trips too. I'm into electronics and computers and drones and always have a few ongoing projects on my workbenches. Living alone, I have to do most of my own cleaning and shopping, and that takes time too. I do take trips to hook up with some friends. Three of us are going south for a month soon, but we won't spend that entire time hanging out together. I intend to go sit in the desert for a couple weeks .. alone .. kind of, I'll bring my cat (they are less needy than a human friend).

I'm much more relaxed and myself when I'm just left alone. I really do have enough interests and hobbies, like photography too, that can consume me and take most of my time. I don't even sleep much because there's still so many things I want to do before I eventually die. If someone doesn't share a few of my interests, they don't really stand much of a chance of getting to know me. There has to be some common interest or obsession there or you have nothing and no reason to be friends. I.E. I hate spectator sports, what a damn ridiculous waste of time, and unhealthy too .. sitting on your ass watching others do stuff. And fishing is SO BORING .. lol, man vs. fish, ha, don't get me started on that. We wouldn't stand a chance of becoming friends if those were your interests. I'd likely have insulted you a dozen times within the first 12 minutes of meeting. chuckle

Friends are okay until they start to distract and deter and interrupt me from my obsessions and fun. When they start to become an interference or a bummer for me, that's when I have to push away. And they always eventually do.

LOL, a friend is someone that wants you to be their best man at their wedding and then 12 years later ask if they can live in your garage and borrow your car because their wife is divorcing them, lol. No thanks.

My few friends are pretty much like me. We occasionally get together and always keep in touch, but we stay out of each other's daily lives and we don't burden others with ours. Someone that doesn't NEED a friend is usually the best kind of friend. It's the ones and NEED a friend that turn me off. I stopped dating because it started to become apparent to me most of them were facing a dilemma: get a waitress job or marry someone that can take care of me. LOL, no thanks.

On this planet of almost 8 billions, I'd be surprised if I would be a compatible friend with even a dozen of you out there.
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Post: #29
RE: The Purpose of Friendship
Jessme  Wrote: (01-12-2017 12:14 AM)
piequal3because14  Wrote: (01-11-2017 10:50 PM)
The purpose of friendship is to be together:)

Exactly. Friends are there for each other. And there is a difference between telling someone a truth they may need to hear but don't want to..and just kicking someone when down and walking away.."for their own good"..

Friends don't get "tired" of each other, they don't get tired of being there for each other.

or is that love?

I always get the two mixed up.

Love is a human evalued condition that has no value....for it is simply the presence of our selves.

Love was given a value by our occult brother, when he considered science and occultist conversion....as if Love as a spirit would save his science...or that a friend in consideration of AI feed back would assist his science.

Yet there is no scientific assistance...science is fake/artificial and without reason....it was simply a choice.

The occultist reasoned LOVE...and the only spiritual presence that existed before his own person was an animal...AND THE ANIMAL LOVES...loves it family, nurtures its family...and he looked at the other species and considered spirit....and yet all the time he was actually considering science...the atmosphere.

So he told his own person that love and friendship existed in the atmosphere as an occultist, a physics studier...and inventor and a dishonest human life.

The only owners of friendship and love belong to the ownerships in natural organic life forms. Our occult brother made this mistake before and placed his spiritual thoughts into atmospheric concepts where no love or friendship existed....and the atmospheric reaction incinerated his life.

He has NEVER LEARNT his lesson....no matter how spiritually loving or how much friendship he is given...he still believes in a falsehood...that his families spirit...his organic family is going to save his science.
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I thought it was so that they had some one to mooch money off of
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