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Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
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Post: #301
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
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Isabella  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:22 PM)
jessacow  Wrote: (02-26-2017 07:16 PM)
I just want to know. Please. Is there one single woman on this site that does not blame me for my pain and doesn't want me to shut up about it?

Or are all women together on this that I am just too filthy to discuss and need to shut up and go away. already?

By continually blaming the outside world for your personal pain/problems you perpetuate being a victim and remain trapped within your own mind.
There is no one but yourself who can free you from this mental slavery.
Is this how you want to continue living by striking out at all those around you who want you to see that you're dug so deep in the victim mentality mindset yet continue to suffer while stubbornly remaining blinded to any/all intelligent/compassionate advice that has been suggested?
You can't have it both ways,wanting to talk about your pain and suffering and expect anyone to remain on your "woe is me" bandwagon when it's you who doesn't want to change anything about yourself that keeps you in your own prison.
It's really,really sad that this has been your choice because from what you've said it's also where you stand with others in your real life and now the same is happening on a public forum.
There is a school of thought when 99.9% of people are basically saying the same thing to someone that it's time for one to pay heed.
I sincerely wish you well and hope that sooner then later you come to realize this so you can begin to rewire your fixed thoughts and beliefs that are destroying you.

That was Beautifully and Compassionately put, while still being exactly what needed to be said.

Thank You!

Hugs

I can, at times lash back strongly against someone who lashes out at me. Especially someone I find frustrating.

But I do hope for more positive things for her, and hope she finds peace.

She seems intelligent and insightful, and it is such a waste to see someone so stuck in so deep a chasm of negativity


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Post: #302
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
Coolchick  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:31 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:30 PM)
Only MaryJane

i like mj

always been cool with me..

1dunno1

Did anyone ever hear from her?

She is another that frustrated me beyond words...

But I still hope the best for her.

Tissue


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Post: #303
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
This Is Library!  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:37 PM)
Coolchick  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:31 PM)
i like mj

always been cool with me..

1dunno1

Did anyone ever hear from her?

She is another that frustrated me beyond words...

But I still hope the best for her.

Tissue

i dunno. i like her just fine..

no i havent heard from her or seen her in a long time.
i do hope she is doing well..

Just Plain Nuts.
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Post: #304
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
Coolchick  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:38 PM)
This Is Library!  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:37 PM)
Did anyone ever hear from her?

She is another that frustrated me beyond words...

But I still hope the best for her.

Tissue

i dunno. i like her just fine..

no i havent heard from her or seen her in a long time.
i do hope she is doing well..

She was sick, right? I wonder if anyone knows her personally that could call her or knows her e-mail?
She can be frustrating in many things but decent in others. I hope she is doing well too.
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Post: #305
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
MysticPizza  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:52 PM)
Coolchick  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:38 PM)
i dunno. i like her just fine..

no i havent heard from her or seen her in a long time.
i do hope she is doing well..

She was sick, right? I wonder if anyone knows her personally that could call her or knows her e-mail?
She can be frustrating in many things but decent in others. I hope she is doing well too.

i dont know.. i believe d said he emailed her with no response though..?

and that was quite awhile ago now so..

i hope so too.

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Post: #306
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
Coolchick  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:38 PM)
This Is Library!  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:37 PM)
Did anyone ever hear from her?

She is another that frustrated me beyond words...

But I still hope the best for her.

Tissue

i dunno. i like her just fine..

no i havent heard from her or seen her in a long time.
i do hope she is doing well..

Jhikpghf

I hope she is doing well too. There was talk that her cancer had come back or something. I really hope she is ok.


I hate to be morbid.
Hiding3

But I truly wish that regular Loppers would make provisions to have the community informed if something were to happen to them.
Tissue

So there isnt all the questions or drama behind the questions. Just simple factual info.

We are all getting up in age. And though over the years the CT community has fractured and spread out across multiple forums. Most still check in here on a fairly regular basis.

After the Nikki situation, I actually keep updated logins and passwords on my online accounts for my family. So they can shut down or preserve what they want to.

And so they can inform yall.

chuckle
Not that many would care, but even if there is ONE... I wouldnt want them to wonder or worry. And would want them to know I moved on to a better place.

Sorry to ramble.


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Post: #307
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
This Is Library!  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:54 PM)
Coolchick  Wrote: (02-26-2017 10:38 PM)
i dunno. i like her just fine..

no i havent heard from her or seen her in a long time.
i do hope she is doing well..

Jhikpghf

I hope she is doing well too. There was talk that her cancer had come back or something. I really hope she is ok.


I hate to be morbid.
Hiding3

But I truly wish that regular Loppers would make provisions to have the community informed if something were to happen to them.
Tissue

So there isnt all the questions or drama behind the questions. Just simple factual info.

We are all getting up in age. And though over the years the CT community has fractured and spread out across multiple forums. Most still check in here on a fairly regular basis.

After the Nikki situation, I actually keep updated logins and passwords on my online accounts for my family. So they can shut down or preserve what they want to.

And so they can inform yall.

chuckle
Not that many would care, but even if there is ONE... I wouldnt want them to wonder or worry. And would want them to know I moved on to a better place.

Sorry to ramble.

I keep meaning to do that for in here and a few other places. All my family knows my screen names though and have the urls to the places I frequent the most. Plus there are a few here that have my e-mail.
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Post: #308
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
I'm happy here, surrounded by you gorgeous ladies..
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Post: #309
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
well October knows i come here so.. she can say if she wants..

never know who is going next. with my family..

lol.. we are kinda used to it unfortunately..

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Post: #310
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
Moranic_Mayhem  Wrote: (02-26-2017 11:10 PM)
I'm happy here, surrounded by you gorgeous ladies..

hey hows it going eh

Cheers

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Post: #311
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
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Okay Okay I got the hint.. Snrmaajt
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Post: #312
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
LoP Guest  Wrote: (02-24-2017 03:17 AM)
jessacow  Wrote: (02-24-2017 03:09 AM)
Let me break down your response, bit by bit, so I can point a few things out.

1. what people don't like is that you identify first and foremost as a victim, instead of somebody who is strong, achieves great things, or anything else that would be considered positive

In other words, I CANNOT "identify" as a VICTIM because YOUR definition of a victim is a negative one. It is one YOU don't like, because it means that the 'VICTIM' has nothing to give. Well duh. The WORD "victim" here:

one that is injured, destroyed, or sacrificed under any of various conditions

Okay, in WHAT connotation does being a victim of a trauma mean one is weak or deficient or anything you are insinuating by refusing to NOT talk about it. It's PART of me and part of what happened to me, and I am not going to skirt around it. I will talk about it as much as I want because we are on a forum where to the best of my knowledge talk about rape is still not a bannable offense, much as you seem to want to it to be. You and others. Why is that? I think the PERPETRATORS are the ones doing it. And those who prefer the "strength" or perpetrators over the testimony and courage of victims who refuse to let others turn the freaking WORD itself into something to be ashamed of. FUG THAT sh*t.

i am not ashamed. you need to be, but I'm not.

I will continue to the second part of my response to your post:

I used to work with a girl in the military who swears up and down she was raped by a superior while on a ship, and that the navy blamed her for it and did nothing to punish the man she accused. It was the very first thing she brought up in discussion when I met her. I felt sympathy for her immediately thinking that it must've happened recently. But after working with her for several years, I learned that it happened a long time ago and it was really just all she would ever talk about. She would go around the office from person to person (instead of working) and complain about her rape and also everything else that was wrong in her life.

You used to "with a girl in the military"? What does that mean? Does it mean YOU were in the military or does it mean that she had been in the military and you worked with her, or what? You aren't very clear there, but then again, I think you are lying and making the entire anecdotal story up anyway.

She brought it up with you immediately, then you worked with her for several years, and realized it happened a long time ago? And it was all she would ever talk about?

I flat out know you are lying, but if you are teling the truth, I wouldn't put it past the office workers to be rapists themselves, drugging her and raping her and paying you to keep quiet about it.

see how that works? you make up one lie, i make up one to counter yours.

Women dont' talk about it like that. I don't talk about it like that.

but nice try.

Knfnpned

..yep..

..and that is why I am never making another account online ever again.. lol..

..wow..

Jmpndlms

..regardless of my view that youre pretty nasty toward those who are nothing but empathetic and kind.. and that youre using your 'tragedy' as your 'excuse' to be so.. I truly hope you find some peace.. some where.. some how.. some time.. its best you do.. for your own sake.. and the sake of all else as well..

Don't let cow patty dissuade you from making an account. If I were here more often so would I. Bug Out Girl is a very cool person but she said something Cow didn't like so Cow called her a liar. That's her MO. Next, she's whining for pity. I like you and liked what you had to say. Stick around.
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Post: #313
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
Coolchick  Wrote: (02-26-2017 11:10 PM)
well October knows i come here so.. she can say if she wants..

never know who is going next. with my family..

lol.. we are kinda used to it unfortunately..

Yeh us too... I spent my entire life growing up never losing anyone close to me. But as an adult.. Its been one after another, with no time in between to grieve.

My poor babies, have lost sooooo many people they were close to in their lives... I wonder often what lasting effects that has had on their psyches.
Tissue


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Post: #314
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
Moranic_Mayhem  Wrote: (02-26-2017 11:10 PM)
I'm happy here, surrounded by you gorgeous ladies..

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Post: #315
RE: Are all the women on here angry and bitter?
This Is Library!  Wrote: (02-26-2017 11:17 PM)
Coolchick  Wrote: (02-26-2017 11:10 PM)
well October knows i come here so.. she can say if she wants..

never know who is going next. with my family..

lol.. we are kinda used to it unfortunately..

Yeh us too... I spent my entire life growing up never losing anyone close to me. But as an adult.. Its been one after another, with no time in between to grieve.

My poor babies, have lost sooooo many people they were close to in their lives... I wonder often what lasting effects that has had on their psyches.
Tissue

well i was 14 when the first sibling went.. then 20.. then 42..

so mine have been kinda all over.

as far as effects, well for me it just made me realize it can happen any time.
lets just say i have no long term plans. lol.

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